Misconceptions in Pursuit of Love: 

• A common misconception, especially when we are in pursuit of infinite love, is the belief that starting a new relationship will magically solve our problems. However, this cycle of constantly seeking new beginnings in the quest for infinite love often leads to failure, as it merely sidesteps the underlying issues rather than confronting them.  Let present thought-provoking ideas and encourage you to reflect on your beliefs and behaviours.

Redefining Normalcy in Love:

• Let’s redefine what it means to be normal in the context of infinite love, and ensure we do not allow people to disrespect us or break our boundaries. In our journey towards understanding and embracing infinite love, it’s crucial to address and resolve our challenges first and redefine the word “normal” Why did the word ‘normal’ go to therapy? Because it was tired of being defined by everyone else. That’s something you should ask yourself, is your relationship glorifying God or are we just doing our own thing and following our own will and dreams, being religious? Let’s find out. 

• People often confuse cause with effect and effect with cause. It is true that poverty and religiosity are positively correlated. However, it may be wrong to conclude that religion is the cause of spiritual poverty, as people might seek answers externally due to spiritual deafness caused by twisted thought processes and inherited DNA. Because of this iniquity, they are unable to hear God’s voice; they hear everything else but not that.

• Jesus said, “If those who lead you say to you, See, the kingdom is in the sky,’ then the birds of the sky will precede you. If they say to you, ‘It is in the sea,’ then the fish will precede you. Rather, the kingdom is inside of you, and it is outside of you. When you come to know yourselves, then you will become known, and you will realize that it is you who are the sons of the living father. But if you will not know yourselves, you dwell in poverty and it is you who are that poverty.

• Religion often fixates on ideas detached from truth, like the infamous “end of the world” party that never seems to happen! And the notion that you must save everyone? Stay away from such nonsense! Remember, God helps those who help themselves. Proverbs 13:4 (NIV): “A sluggard’s appetite is never filled, but the desires of the diligent are fully satisfied.” 

• This verse underscores the disparity between laziness and diligence, implying that those who work hard and take initiative are more likely to find fulfilment and success. While God certainly offers guidance, strength, and blessings, individuals are also responsible for actively participating in their own well-being and success, but remember what you do must be done with integrity, otherwise is on you!

• Do lies really spread faster than truth? Definitely yes, according to a new paper from Soroush Vosoughi and Deb Roy of MIT’s Media Lab, and Sinan Aral, a professor at the institute’s Sloan School of Management. In fact, these researchers found that “It took the truth about six times as long as falsehood to reach 1,500 people. You might comfort yourself with the notion that lies and the truth are like the proverbial hare and tortoise, with the lies racing out of the starting gate, and the truth eventually catching up, perhaps? Sadly, no, at least not on social media: Falsehood reached far more people than the truth.

• Do not seek out enemies or judge people and environments. Recognize that not everything manifested by others is real or substantial. Discover wholeness within yourself. Then, your field will expand, and you will lose the attraction to distractions. Avoid focusing solely on your environment or perceived threats around you!

• Be cautious about aligning with pride and people who operate in confusion and arrogance. This is referenced in the book of Job, where the Leviathan, often associated with pride, is depicted. You know The Leviathan, like a multi-headed crocodile, embodies confusion. It creates disorder, lies, and contradicts itself, pulling you under like turbulent waters until you’re exhausted. Be aware of people who operate in this manner of though procceses!

• We need to sincerely pray and possibly fast and study for ourselfs to understand why a demonic spirits may be influencing us. Operating under this spirit not only causes personal turmoil but also creates problems for others. Focus on your heart, because when it’s inflated with pride, you become blind to your own faults. No one can offer you good counsel, and you resist godly thinking. Pride can take over your world, making you unteachable and susceptible to the Leviathan spirit.

• Symptoms of operating in this spirit include arrogance, haughtiness, self-centeredness, gossip, anger, self-righteousness, resistance to God’s will, condescension, and a critical attitude towards others. These individuals may take advantage of others or experience depression, and have suicidal thoughts, and there is manyother manifestations that hinder wholeness and this list culd go on! Such individuals often brag, refuse to accept correction, blame others, keep secrets, and lack transparency. They tend to dominate conversations, talk about themselves, not listen, and need constant validation. They are oversensitive, defensive, argumentative, harsh, and refuse advice.

• Sometimes, we puff up with pride to protect ourselves, but this leads to God’s resistance. It’s a spiritual law that God resists the proud. When things start going wrong, it’s crucial to reflect on where pride might have taken root. Admit mistakes, be humble, forgive others, be honest, and stop cursing yourself and complaining about life.

• By being accountable and humble, you remove the foothold of pride in your life. The book of Job describes this spirit as deeply embedded, requiring the God’s intervention to remove it. You don’t want to be the person who, because of pride, damages others, becomes unteachable, and is resisted by God. Humility is the path to promotion and favor.

• Physical environments change when you divert your attention away from distractions and don’t react to them. Your electromagnetic field will affect others. Observe, meditate, and connect to your heart. When you find yourself reacting emotionally to your surroundings, pause and reflect.

• If you have experienced abuse, you may be vibrating at the frequency of trauma and anger, attracting similar experiences. Remember, like attracts like. Fear is separation from love. Instead of perpetuating a cycle of drama, abuse, trauma, and wars—which are not reflective of your wholeness—realize that you are not a victim. You have not fallen. What goes into your environment is not always reality! This situation aligns with the law of attraction, which acts as a double-edged sword and can create a downward spiral. Be mindful of this law because it is powerful and can significantly shape your experiences.

• You might be someone who needs love and tenderness the most. However, reacting to drama will only match you with more trauma and relationship problems. How do you see the world? Do you think everyone is awake or asleep in metaphorical death frequencies that will slowly lead to more problems and an eventual metaphorical spiritual death? As your electromagnetic field shrinks, you might wonder why you are sick. Remember, you are both the devil and God of this world—there’s no one else to blame but yourself.

• It’s easy to be conditioned to things that have no substance—all you need is an emotional experience connected with stimulation. This is how people get conditioned, run in circles, and let their bodies become the minds of their experiences, which prevents them from living in peace. You cannot be in chaos and hope to experience love; you cannot be in anger and experience peace and love and amazing relationship.

• How you respond to a physical environment demonstrates your physical and spiritual grounding. Are you really focused and relaxed, or do you have redundant thoughts and experiences? Observe your thoughts and reactions, and the greater observer you become, the easier it will be for your lower frequency thoughts to disappear. Those foggy thoughts will dissipate.

• Just remember, if you’re losing the attraction to distractions, maybe your distractions aren’t trying hard enough. Maybe they need to take up juggling or learn a magic trick! Observing your thoughts and letting go of lower-frequency ones is a bit like dieting for your brain—except instead of avoiding junk food, you’re cutting out junk thoughts. And there’s no need to count calories!

 

When your dream turns into a nightmare – fruit-savouring moments! Once upon a time, in a land of metaphors and biblical references, there lived a peculiar magnet named Manny. Manny wasn’t your ordinary magnet; he had the uncanny ability to attract things based on his vibrational alignment, a concept he learned from Proverbs 23:7, “As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he.” Manny, who had a penchant for philosophy and a bit of a mischievous streak, decided to test out his unique power. One day, he set his heart on attracting something very specific: a fruit from the legendary Garden of Eden.

Manny had heard about Eve and her infamous encounter with the fruit, and his curiosity got the best of him. He thought, “If covetousness is idolatry, as mentioned in Colossians and Ephesians, then let’s see what happens when I covet this fruit!” As he focused his thoughts, Manny started to notice strange things happening. First, a small apple rolled toward him, followed by a bunch of grapes. But no, these were not the fruits he desired. He concentrated harder, envisioning the forbidden fruit from Eden. Meanwhile, in a parallel universe, King Saul and Samuel were having a heated discussion about stubbornness being idolatry. Saul, known for his stubbornness, was pushing back against Samuel’s wise counsel, completely unaware that his actions were being magnetically influenced by Manny’s experiment. 

Back in Manny’s world, the magnet’s efforts finally paid off. A shiny, peculiar fruit, unlike any he had seen before, appeared before him. Ecstatic, Manny reached out to touch it, only to be interrupted by a sudden appearance of Ezekiel, who popped out of nowhere, warning about the dangers of setting up idols in one’s heart. Just as Manny was about to argue, Balaam appeared, riding his talking donkey. Balaam, who had his own issues with idolatry and coveting money, joined the conversation, sharing his tale of woe and the angel that almost ended his journey. The scene became a bizarre gathering of biblical characters and Manny, the philosophical magnet, all discussing the complexities of idolatry, stubbornness, and the power of attraction. Manny, realizing the chaos he had inadvertently caused, decided to relinquish his covetous desire for the fruit. 

As the fruit vanished, and the biblical figures faded away, Manny was left pondering the lesson he had learned: that the power of attraction, much like the teachings of the scriptures, should be wielded with wisdom and caution. From that day forward, Manny decided to use his powers for good, attracting only positive vibrations and steering clear of the pitfalls of idolatry and stubbornness. And so, the magnet who once sought the forbidden fruit became a wise and thoughtful magnet, known throughout the land for his philosophical insights and his ability to bring together the most unlikely of characters for some truly enlightening conversations.

This is a crucial lesson for all to grasp: Creating an idol in your heart and following worldly, counterfeit wisdom while rejecting biblical teachings can lead to folly. Unfortunately, many people fall into this trap nowadays. You might just get what you’re wishing for, but not necessarily in the way you expect or desire. This is illustrated in the story of Balaam. God responded to Balaam according to the multitude of idols in his heart. For Balaam, these idols were his desires for recognition, fame, and money. So, when Balaam persisted in his desire to go against God’s will, God eventually allowed him to go. However, this decision led to a perilous situation where an angel was sent to stop him, nearly resulting in his death. This story serves as a reminder that pursuing our selfish desires or idols can lead us to dangerous paths, and God’s responses to our actions are consistent with His character and teachings, God is not schizophrenic, we are!

Donkey, Tiger, King Lion and Playboy Bunny

Now, Donkey pops up and begins to shout, “Your Highness, is it true that the grass is blue?” The Lion replies, “If you believe it’s true, then the grass is blue.”The Donkey continues, “The Tiger disagrees with me, contradicts, and annoys me. Please punish him.”The King declares, “The Tiger will be punished with five years of silence.”Celebrate everything tragic, since it is an illusion—celebrate drama! We make the dead alive because we have this power! We attract what we fear! “What I feared has come upon me; what I dreaded has happened to me!” – Job 3:25 ► 

King Lion says, “Why do you bother to prove anything to anyone, Tiger? It’s a frequency! Just let the metaphorical dead bury the dead!”“The Alchemy of Fears” is to celebrate everything tragic! And consider it pure joy, as the Bible says when you are put through many trials and tribulations!

We, as Donkeys, known for our scepticism and loud debates, need to approach King Lion again with a bold declaration. “Your Majesty, I fear poverty so deeply, it haunts my dreams,” brayed loudly. “Yet, today, I choose to celebrate this fear, for I believe it to be an illusion that binds my spirit!” King Lion will be intrigued by this declaration.

“If you celebrate this fear, let it bring you wealth unimagined!” Miraculously, as the Donkey danced joyfully around the assembly, coins began to rain from the sky, turning his dread into a spectacle of prosperity, and the grass that once appeared blue now seemed green!

Next, the Tiger, fierce and battle-scarred, stepped forward with a roar. “I have always feared war, seeing it as an endless cycle of tragedy. Today, I choose to celebrate it as an illusion, a mere shadow of our fears!” With this, the Tiger began to dance a powerful dance of valour.

The King, moved by the Tiger’s courage, waved his majestic paw, and the landscape transformed.

The battlegrounds turned into fields of vibrant flowers, where once there were scars of war, now there were symbols of peace and resilience. The illusion of war faded, revealing a deeper truth of harmony and growth.

Lastly, a shy Playboy Rabbit whispered about his fear of intimacy and closeness, afraid to even speak loudly. Hearing this, King Lion encouraged him to celebrate this fear as well. As he danced timidly at first, expressing his sexuality and fears, his dance grew into a jubilant celebration. Surrounding him, the other animals joined in, showing their support and love. The Rabbit felt his fear dissolve into connections and bonds that he had never experienced before, transforming his solitude into a beloved community and sexual fulfilment!

King Lion, seeing his subjects transform their deepest fears into triumphant celebrations, declared, “Let this day be remembered, where we learned to make the dead alive with our power, where we celebrated our fears and saw them for the illusions they are. Let us always turn what we dread into what we cherish. “Thus, in Vibrant Vales, fears were not merely faced but celebrated!

The Heart’s Conundrum: World vs. God’s

• When it comes to relationships and the desire for lasting connections, it’s crucial to approach them with respect and understanding, rather than solely with lust. If you find yourself struggling with passions, it’s better to marry and express them within the bounds of commitment than to risk causing problems in the world and breaking people’s hearts. Remember, if you end up hurting another human being, it’s a lesson for you to learn from and grow. It’s essential to acknowledge that you can not change someone who isn’t committed to their own personal development. While treating a partner with kindness and respect is fundamental, individuals with unresolved issues from a chaotic childhood or heavily influenced by fleeting emotions and societal pressures may not respond positively to stability. They might continue seeking chaotic situations, despite your efforts.

• It’s crucial to choose a partner who either had a stable upbringing or has taken the initiative to work on themselves. This helps in building a relationship where both partners are ‘equally yoked,’ meaning they share similar values, goals, and levels of personal growth. Understanding and compatibility are key to a healthy, fulfilling relationship. Because the world will tell you to follow your heart, But God says that the human heart is the most deceitful of all things, and desperately wicked. Who really knows how bad it is? But I, the LORD, search all hearts and examine secret motives. Which lens you are looking through is a big question and says a lot about the conditions of your heart.  

• In today’s society, certain portrayals of women, alpha males and religion are often emphasized and idealized, especially through social media platforms. However, it’s important to understand that these portrayals may not always reflect reality. Rather than passing judgment, it’s valuable to consider the underlying reasons behind such behaviours and the societal pressures that contribute to them. Look at those delicious fruits. In life, everything takes time to grow; what grows fast are just weeds and grapes that become sour, and we identify ourselves with something with no substance this is why relationships break.

• It appears that certain qualities are highly valued in our culture today and given special attention. These include the exaggerated sexualization of women, often fueled by social media, as well as the archetype of the dominant “alpha” male who may not consider the feelings of others. And religion that seems to be stealing from us! 

• We seek our own gods and keep judging others through limited and condemning perspectives. We govern through principles of fear, intimidation, and control, protecing ourslefs with the system, external validations and fostering dependence on man rather than on God Himself.

• Did you ever meet some of an Alpha Males? who are also pedestalized for reasons that baffle the common man and are often seen as the heartthrob, despite having the emotional depth of a teaspoon. After all, the Alpha Male is merely a product of societal expectations, steeped in a brew of outdated stereotypes.

• Conflict Conundrums: How do individuals navigate minor disagreements? Are they accountable for their actions, or religion that resorts to instilling fear of consequences like hell? Do those people have comon sense, Did they embarked on a healing journey and reprogramming and do they adhere to societal norms or exploit them? Some may resort to control, intimidation, and false statements, leading to self-sabotage, and appearing foolish in the eyes of God. Can they maintain composure, or do they deflect blame or lack conscience?

• Now, let’s delve into reality – women were not fashioned from man’s head to dominate him, nor from his feet to be trodden upon. They were crafted from his side to stand as equals, beneath his arm to be safeguarded, and close to his heart to be cherished. Women embody a magnificent manifestation of God’s creative genius. However, the belief that every curve of a woman’s body exists solely to gratify and allure many men is flawed. Many women feel pressured to appear alluring to multiple men, but this perspective is rooted in illusion and is misinformed. They may be unaware of their seductive powers, but that does not diminish their inherent worth and dignity.

• The Blame Game: In the realm of modern relationships, if they can’t accept a slice of the accountability pie, then you might be in for a bumpy ride. But yet remember, conflict is the secret ingredient for deeper intimacy – it’s like relationship therapy, but free! Remember this: Beauty without modesty is like a conversation without honesty. It’s time to break the cycle. Let’s be the mountain in the storm, not the emotional weathervane.

• Now, we agree we all have issues; this is reality. But in God-Centered Growth, we embrace these issues as opportunities to grow closer and illuminate those shadowy parts of ourselves, transforming them into something meaningful. In a God-centered relationship, conflicts are like spiritual workouts – tough but totally worth it for that soulmate six-pack. Remember, relationships are not just about the lovey-dovey stuff; they’re about growing and healing. It’s akin to learning not to touch hot stoves; you’ll get hurt occasionally, but it highlights the problem that needs addressing. Jumping into new relationships won’t solve deeper issues; that introspection and self-awareness only occur when you’re alone with yourself, truly knowing who you are..

• If I antagonize you in many different ways, it might seem like your insecurities are being inflamed. However, consider that God is using this discomfort so you find security. God will shatter your immature expectations about love and rality and your preconceived notions of relationships and societal norms. True love can only thrive amidst life’s challenges and complexities. As the saying goes, “Love bears all things” – genuine love endures, remains hopeful, and establishes healthy boundaries. 

• Your imperfections will inevitably surface before you can fully commit to someone else. Let’s face it, everyone has their own set of flaws. The silver lining is that we cannot conceal our weaknesses; they are part of who we are. It’s essential for people to love you for your authentic self, even amidst the messiness of life. The key is learning how to transform these imperfections into opportunities for growth and creation. Becoming truly ready for marriage can indeed be quite challenging, but every reflection and experience serves a purpose in our journey towards self-discovery and personal growth and healthy families.

• If we unpack the sentiment behind “masses are asses and donkeys that destroy the order of creation,” it appears to express frustration or disappointment with how collective actions or the behaviour of large groups can sometimes lead to negative outcomes, disrupting what might be seen as a natural or desired order.

• This perspective can stem from observing situations where group dynamics lead to decisions or actions that don’t align with certain values, principles, or the well-being of the environment and society at large. It’s a viewpoint that might arise from seeing instances of mob mentality, where the collective behaviour seems less reasoned or constructive than individual actions might be.

• While it’s true that group dynamics can lead to outcomes that seem counterproductive or harmful, it’s also important to recognize the potential for positive change and innovation that comes from collective action. Realising that you, or we collectively, are the problem marks a profound moment of self-discovery. Often, we find ourselves in a constant battle against our own nature. 

• In today’s world, the concepts of value and loyalty in relationships are evolving the wrong way yet they remain deeply rooted in societal perceptions. For instance, if a woman, considered the most beautiful in the world, is easily accessible to many men, it might affect how her value is perceived. This perception is not just about physical accessibility but also about how she presents herself to the world. Where is a certain mystique associated with a woman’s modesty? The effort required to see a woman in a state of undress added to her allure and mystery. In contrast, today’s society often sees women dressed in revealing attire, which could be perceived as diminishing this sense of mystery and, consequently, their perceived value.

• This perspective extends to the concept of loyalty, which involves more than just refraining from physical infidelity. Loyalty also encompasses how one presents oneself to others. It’s about maintaining a certain level of decorum that respects the relationship. In this context, a woman who exposes herself inappropriately to other men might not only diminish her own perceived value but also make her partner appear foolish. This behaviour might be seen as indicative of immaturity, hence the distinction between a ‘girl’ and a ‘woman’ in terms of conduct and self-awareness, Here is no blame, just collective reflection to put things to light! 

• True progress is achieved not by escaping into new relationships, but by facing and resolving our existing challenges from the roots before we engage in any relationship. It’s crucial to break free from this repetitive cycle and shift our focus to what truly matters: understanding and addressing the root causes of our problems for lasting change and growth.

• Watch out when you encounter someone with whom the chemistry is overwhelmingly strong and undeniably exhilarating. The temptation to dive headfirst into this connection can be immense. However, it’s crucial to approach these intense connections with a level of caution, especially when they are primarily driven by our senses. 

• Such relationships, while thrilling, if pursued too early can sometimes lead us astray if we rely solely on our emotional and physical responses. It’s important to take a step back and reflect. This isn’t just about a fleeting moment of passion; it’s about making a significant decision that could impact your entire life. It’s a question of whether to commit fully or not at all. 

• Before making a leap based on intense chemistry, consider the broader aspects of the relationship. Are there shared values and goals? Is there mutual respect and understanding? It’s essential to look beyond the initial spark and evaluate the potential for a sustainable, healthy relationship.

• Remember, a relationship that’s 100% all-in requires more than just chemistry. It demands a foundation built on mutual respect, understanding, and shared values and vision. So, while it’s wonderful to experience such a powerful connection, it’s wise to approach it with a balanced perspective, ensuring that both heart and mind are in agreement before committing fully. Emotions are very misleading and very often cloud our judgment at first.

• Towards sacred sexuality, it’s essential to recognize the true essence of connection that transcends superficial appearances. Many women, feeling the weight of societal expectations, may resort to extreme measures such as plastic surgeries, heavy makeup, or provocative attire in an attempt to align with the perceived desires of men. This pursuit, often rooted in a yearning to be loved, can lead them away from their authentic selves. However, the heart of sacred sexuality lies in the realization that genuine attraction and deep, meaningful intimacy are born from authenticity and self-acceptance. A truly conscious man cherishes and seeks a connection with a woman for her genuine self, her unmasked beauty, and her unique spirit. This form of sacred sexuality celebrates the unadorned, unaltered individuality of a person.

• Women need to understand that if they want to be in a relationship with a man, and this man has any self-respect and backbone, he will have standards, rules, and boundaries. If women want to behave as if they are single, then they should remain single. It is very disrespectful to a man when women act as though they are single. Thinking the right partner will just come around is a delusion in itself. This is because you build a relationship; you don’t find someone perfect!

• Fake behaviors and double standards, especially those that allow women to do whatever they want, destroy families. Men must learn to recognize red flags, including women who were raised without father figures and who have not overcome their fear of abandonment. These women may be scared of being alone, which is why they might jump from one relationship to another cheat and always blame a guy. Is it common sense that we men protect and build this world? This is how we are designed! One priority for a man is always Loyalty, women must finally get that straight! Everyone makes mistakes, and do not forget you are worthy of LOVE you have done the best you could with the information you had available at the current time! The purpose of learning is to defeat yesterday’s understanding!
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• If we quickly reject or address what might reject or harm us, we are not being cold-hearted — we are just preemptively defending our castle from the siege of new traumas. If women think men are trash, this is only an excuse for them instead of taking responsibility and starting to work on themselves. But then, one day, Self-Love and Understanding showed up with a battering ram of compassion. They shouted up to the walls, “Hey, it’s okay to lower the drawbridge sometimes and say, ‘Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life'” (Proverbs 4:23). 

• But remember, not all invaders are here to cause harm; some bring gifts of healing and growth. you heart must peek over those wall, skeptical but curious. “But what if you’re just like the others? What if you betray me? Self-Love replied, “Because we come bearing the shield of self-reflection and the sword of self-care. Together, we can explore these fears and maybe plant a garden or two inside this fortress. Who knows? We might even find that some visitors, like Happiness and New Experiences, are worth letting in.

• Often, women feel pressured to conform to what they believe men desire. It’s time to flip the script, acknowledging that the masses are not always right. Women do many things out of desperation to be loved for who they are not. The reality is that a genuine man desires conscious intimacy with a woman as she truly is, without any need for artificial enhancements or distractions. This is the essence of authentic, conscious connection and sacred sexuality. Don’t get me wrong is important to look good, but main focus shuld be on building your character and your heart!

• Let’s promote self-reflection, understanding, and growth rather than judgment or condemnation. This will encourage you to question societal norms, examine your own actions and beliefs, and strive for authenticity and personal development in your relationships and lives. 

• The book “Quantum Access Code” is not just a book; it’s a transformative journey into self-discovery, love, and spiritual awakening. Through the captivating storytelling, you will be invited to take full radical responsibility for yourself and unlock the secrets of your true potential. From navigating relationships to understanding the transformative power of sexuality, my book offers profound insights and practical wisdom for living a more enlightened and awakened life. Join me as I delve into the depths of sexual immortality, spiritual energy, trauma, and their profound effects on many of us. Let’s unravel the mysteries of the universe together. Embark on this transformative journey today and discover the magic of self-discovery and healing. “Quantum Access Code” 

• Ask yourself a question: Do you always act on your thoughts? We, as human beings, have hundreds and thousands of thoughts every day. But do we act on all of them? You Are Not Your Thoughts: Romans 12:2 (NIV) states, “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.” This verse highlights the importance of renewing our minds to align with God’s will, which involves discerning and testing our thoughts against God’s standards. As well, you are not what you feel; you are what you feed! The Word of God, as revealed in the Bible, serves as a powerful tool for discerning and evaluating our thoughts and intentions.

• Your thoughts are merely objects of the mind, just like sounds, perceptions, feelings, and ideas. From this perspective, thoughts are nothing but passing clouds, and there is nothing you should take personally about them. Let them pass so you don’t feel anxious. That is all you should do. They are just ideas that your mind presents to you, most probably due to an external stimulus. Your thoughts are just as real as you make them. The more attention you give to a thought, the more elaborate it becomes. The bigger you make it, the more it will affect you.  

• The most significant human development often occurs after you’ve been through hell itself, facing a world that seems intent on bringing you down and devouring you, yet you manage to rise above it. Such experiences propel your growth; being in the deep darkness of the woods alone teaches you how to overcome any challenge, and how to navigate any situation fearlessly. You become fluent to see beyond fear, understanding it so deeply that when you have nothing left to hide, overcoming your greatest fears—such as humiliation and the fear of judgment—becomes possible. Then, nothing can hold you back.

• In a society where the divorce rate hovers around 60% to 70% in some regions, it’s not just the lack of commitment or the rush into relationships that’s problematic ad There’s also a significant number of couples who, despite being unhappy, choose to project an image of a perfect relationship. This act of pretence is not just about keeping up appearances; it’s a reflection of deeper societal pressures and personal fears. What is the root cause of such widespread marital dissatisfaction? The answer, it seems, lies in a lack of commitment.

• The reasons behind this charade are manifold. For some, it’s the fear of societal judgment or the stigma associated with divorce. For others, it’s about financial security or concerns about the impact on children. And then there are those who hold onto hope, believing that with time, things might improve. Owning our stories and stepping away from cowardly actions can be challenging, but is worth the effort. 

• However, this facade of happiness can have far-reaching consequences. It not only perpetuates a cycle of dissatisfaction but also sets unrealistic expectations for what a marriage should look like. It creates an illusion that can be especially misleading for younger generations, who may grow up with distorted views of relationships and commitment.

• This situation calls for a collective rethinking of our approach to marriage and relationships. It’s crucial to foster an environment where honesty and authenticity are valued over the illusion of a perfect union. Encouraging open conversations about the challenges of marriage, acknowledging that it’s okay to not be okay, and providing support systems for those in struggling relationships are essential steps.

• Moreover, it’s important to recognize that being alone and healing is often a healthier choice than staying in an unhappy marriage. By prioritizing personal growth and emotional well-being, individuals can break free from the cycle of pretence and pave the way for more genuine, fulfilling relationships.

• It takes a significant amount of awareness and introspection to confront uncomfortable truths. Women, in particular, are increasingly finding their self-esteem, meaning, and purpose influenced by social media. The pursuit of likes and online validation provides a temporary emotional fix but fails to address deeper issues. This cycle of seeking constant validation fosters a reliance on superficial, materialistic values and fleeting emotions. 

• Society frequently promotes a specific image of women, often depicted in bikini-clad photos on social media or wearing provocative clothing in general. This trend pushes women to reveal more, diminishing the imagination and mystery that once enriched personal interactions. Excessive validation from such exposure can create unrealistic expectations. In relationships, this dynamic poses challenges, as men may struggle to provide the same level of attention, potentially leading them to seek fulfilment in unproductive ways, such as infidelity or pornography. 

• Recognizing the importance of genuine connections and the value of preserving personal mystery is crucial. By doing so, we can cultivate healthier relationships and a more balanced sense of self-worth that isn’t solely dependent on the highs and lows of external validation and drama. I realised that I was the problem, and collectively, we are the problem in our relationships. I tried to break up with myself, but it turns out that’s quite complicated. 

• We cannot eliminate darkness, but we can integrate it in such a way that its expression evolves. Darkness is not visible without its presence within us. We all possess it; our role is not to judge but to acknowledge, embrace, and transform it into a higher form of expression. Why don’t secrets work well in the dark? Because they always seem to come to light! For in every soul, the dark and light entwine. In their embrace, a chance to transcend, to refine.

• Everyone is our teacher! By acknowledging and addressing these underlying factors, we can move towards a healthier and more fulfilling mindset. The first step of growth is acceptance of yourself. Pay attention to why people do not want to be around you. Drop the guard, do some inner work, and start acknowledging your inner child. Use this contrast as you experience from other souls as inspiration, do not use those emotions as a weapon! Embracing yourself and your past, doing the right thing no matter how it seems, and how painful it might have been, requires a lot of humility. We learn to let go and better things come! We create, we synergize! We always get better and better is the only true reality. This expanding universe is not depressing!

“Modest Chemistry: Rethinking Relationships Beyond Lust”

They say to avoid relationships with too much chemistry, so now let’s date women who failed science class and dress modestly is all about the heart!

They say when you build on lust, nothing lasts. So I built a sandcastle instead. At least when that falls apart, I get a day at the beach! 

I heard relationships built on lust don’t last. Guess that explains why my gym crush and I didn’t work out. We only had ‘abs’ in common!

Building on lust is like making a cake with only sugar. It’s sweet at first, but you’ll soon wish you added more ingredients… like flour and sanity.

Tried building a relationship on lust. It was like a Wi-Fi connection – great at first, then kept dropping at the most important moments.

Building on lust? That’s like using a chocolate teapot. Looks tempting, but it’ll melt away before your tea’s ready!

Sacred Sexuality (Energy) follows consciousness

• Anyone who is disconnected from their own body heart and spirit will not experience ecstasy. Conscious breathing is crucial, spreading orgasmic energy, and slowing down is essential for more satisfying experiences. It is crucial to have a deep understanding of your own body and the ability to communicate your desires to your partner. If you are not in tune with your own body, it signifies a lack of self-love. Take the time to explore your body and encourage your partner to do the same. True sexual fulfilment is not merely achieving orgasm but reaching a state of ecstasy.

• True healing occurs when a woman’s satisfaction brings ecstasy to a man, and he can exercise control over himself, separating orgasm from ejaculation voluntarily. Learning this skill is essential for complete satisfaction in a relationship. The key to satisfying a woman lies in having complete control over your ejaculation. When a man can achieve this, he is no longer controlled by his penis. 

• Sacred sexuality teaches mindfulness, sacredness, and specialness, emphasizing being fully present in the moment. In real sex, there is a deep focus on sacredness, with lovers treating each other as divine beings and their bodies as temples of pleasure. Sacred sexuality isn’t about specific actions but how you perform them. Living and making love involves mindfulness, appreciating each moment’s uniqueness, and celebrating it reverently. This is what is sacred sexuality, a concept explored in various sacred sexuality books.

Sacred sexuality emphasizes being present in the moment. Tried that on a date, and it was going great until I realized being ‘present’ didn’t mean opening all her gifts.

I heard Pikachu tried sacred sexuality for a longer orgasm. Now every time it’s about to happen, he shouts ‘Pika-CHUUUU’… and the neighbours think there’s a thunderstorm!

They say in sacred sexuality, you treat your partner as a divine being. I tried it, and now my partner expects me to pray before asking for the TV remote. 

Exploring sacred sexuality is like cooking a gourmet meal – it takes time, effort, and a bit of trial and error. And just like my cooking, there’s a fire extinguisher on standby, just in case.

Why did Pikachu get embarrassed during sacred sexuality class? Because every time the instructor mentioned a long orgasm, Pikachu accidentally let out a little spark!

They say the key to a long orgasm is like a Pikachu – you need to build up the energy, but be careful not to shock anyone!

Why doesn’t Pikachu need sacred sexuality for a long orgasm? Because every experience is electrifying!

Pikachu’s guide to a long orgasm: Step 1 – Charge up your energy. Step 2 – Find the right moment. Step 3 – Avoid short circuits!

• It’s important not to generalize and claim that women ask for abuse. Instead, the path to healing a woman involves engaging in conscious fulfilling sexual experiences that lead to bliss. A sexually conscious woman holds great power within her. Men need to understand the importance of respecting and cherishing the feminine spirit. Fulfilling some of a woman’s fantasies without judgment allows her to overcome feelings of guilt and anxiety.

• Well, in the world of imagination and make-believe, 1+1 can indeed be 5! Just like in the land of unicorns and dragons, where numbers dance and change as they please!” I’m at that stage in my life where I always feel victorious in avoiding arguments with stubborn people who refuse to yield. I find joy in this approach. Even if you tell me 1+1=5, you’re absolutely correct. Enjoy Or, if you tell me that cheating is acceptable, it’s akin to sprinkling gold dust on a frog and declaring it a prince or princes. Have some fun with the frogs then!

• The reality is that women want to be ‘owned’ in a healthy way, to a degree where they feel they belong to you, and you cannot hurt her without actually hurting yourself too. Therefore, positive ‘ownership’ is the only genuine way to ensure safety and happiness in a relationship.

Why did a man break up with infinite love?

• He found it ‘Impossible’ to set boundaries on something as endless as infinity. They say ‘impossible’ is just a word for those who give up too soon. Yet, he simply couldn’t find a way to etch ‘I love you’ onto the limitless canvas of infinity. His three-dimensional way of thinking left him confined within a box, unable to navigate the boundless dimensions of infinite love.

 

 

 

Why is love like a ‘Mission Impossible’ movie?

• Just when you think you’ve figured out the plot, it throws another twist at you, and you find yourself dangling from a skyscraper of emotions, trying to defuse the bomb of misunderstandings with the red wire of romance and the blue wire of communication. And just like Tom Cruise, no matter how many times you get knocked down, you’re always ready to jump back in for the sequel! 

 

• It’s important to understand that chemistry isn’t always a sign of a healthy connection. When we’re drawn to someone, it’s like being swept up in a dance, one that never seems dull. It can be akin to an exhilarating roller-coaster ride, full of highs and lows and the book “Quantum Access Code“ is an amazing roller-coaster ride from lust to peace and I hope you will enjoy it. It shows people what truly is going on in this world from the very root and we are all collectively responsible.

• However, it’s crucial to remember that we cannot rely on another person to mend the deep-seated wounds from our childhood. Using someone else as a means to feel secure, normal, or happy is not a sustainable path to emotional well-being. If you find yourself consistently seeking out relationships that are thrilling yet unfulfilling, it’s time to pause and reflect.

• Relationships often bring our deepest issues to the surface. But if you’re caught in a roller-coaster dynamic that consistently fails to meet your needs, you might be trapped in a harmful cycle. The question then arises: is the excitement really worth it?

• I encourage you to take a step back and introspect. Examine the patterns being repeated in these tumultuous relationships. Understand the underlying reasons for the intensity and thrill, and work towards resolving them. This deeper understanding can be the key to breaking free from these cycles and moving towards healthier, more fulfilling relationships and experiencing infinite love.

• Every time we forgive when people overstep our boundaries the issue often returns, magnified. It’s simple: people either respect us or they don’t. By tolerating certain behaviours, we essentially guarantee recurring problems. The reality is that people generally don’t respect those who tolerate unacceptable behaviour.

• Let’s stop being obsessed with beauty, though captivating, it is just one aspect of a person and quite often very misleading. Most attractive people are more likely to behave in a self-interested manner. They pursue self-enhancement, people on the screen are merely empty pixels. It’s like admiring a beautiful book without actually reading the pages inside. True beauty is a state of mind, not merely about how things look. Our impure thoughts and our messed-up ways of thinking lead us astray. It’s never too late to wake up and start seeing beyond the illusions. True beauty lies within yourself, in your heart, and this beauty remains forever.  

• Why did the man apply for a job at a jigsaw puzzle factory after his wife posted a provocative photo online? He wanted to figure out where he fit in the picture! Feeling the need to adapt, he then joined yoga classes to become more flexible, just to keep up with her dynamic angles. Not stopping there, he donned 3D glasses, attempting to see what everyone else seemed to be captivated by. Realizing he couldn’t compete with the virtual allure, he started a blog about authentic fashion, focusing on reality rather than fantasy.

• Education and social media can fill your brain with knowledge, but wisdom is knowing not to believe everything you read online or what you have been taught by the system. Picture a world-class historian scrolling through social media and thinking, ‘Hmm, this meme says Napoleon was defeated by an army of angry penguins at Waterloo. Must be true, it’s got 10,000 shares!’ Having an education is one thing, but gaining wisdom is another. ‘Being well-educated is impressive, but it doesn’t always mean you’re wise.’ It’s like having a degree in nutrition and still believing that the ‘likes’ your salad photo gets on Instagram are a valid measure of its health benefits. ‘Wow, 300 likes? This salad must be reversing my cholesterol!’ On social media, you can have all the information in the world at your fingertips, yet still believe that a photo of a celebrity’s breakfast is breaking news.

• Imagine believing in infinite love in the age of dating apps. It’s like trying to find a needle in a digital haystack, except the needle might ghost you after two dates. Picture this: you’re swiping left and right, looking for that eternal, cosmic connection, and then you stumble upon a profile that says, ‘Looking for my infinite love, must love dogs and have a Netflix account.’ Ah, modern romance! Then there’s the first date. You’re there, sipping your overpriced coffee, wondering if this is the one who will sync with your soul for eternity. But instead, you find out they think ‘Romeo and Juliet’ is a travel guide for a romantic getaway in Verona. So much for literary romance! And let’s not forget the social media aspect of infinite love. There you are, posting a picture with your significant other captioned ‘Together forever’. It gets 200 likes, and suddenly you’re convinced this is it, the infinite love the poets wrote about. Nothing says ‘eternal bond’ like a thumbs-up from your high school friend whom you haven’t seen in ten years. 

• But hey, Infinite Love isn’t all memes and awkward first dates. Sometimes, it’s finding someone who doesn’t mind that you prefer cereal for dinner and agrees that wearing socks to bed is a valid lifestyle choice. It’s not always about grand gestures or poetic declarations. Sometimes, it’s just about finding someone who also thinks pineapple on pizza is a crime against humanity. So, here’s to infinite love in the digital age – may your swipes be lucky, your coffee dates less awkward, and your love as infinite as the battery life of your smartphone (which, let’s be honest, isn’t really that infinite).

• Let’s try to be real “NOW” in 1 sentence – When you and your loved one are so intimately connected, your hearts beat in sync,  and you both know that no matter how far, no matter how long, you will always be there for each other, that is infinite love.